The Green Flag Guide

You know that feeling when a conversation ends and you're apologizing, but you can't quite remember what you did wrong?

Yeah. This book is for that.

The Green Flag Guide is the pocket-sized field manual nobody hands you before your first relationship - the one that actually names the stuff you've been quietly explaining away. Love bombing. Gaslighting. DARVO. The ex who "never overreacted like this." The apology that somehow ends with you comforting them.

No clinical jargon. No 300-page memoir. Just plain language, real scripts, and just enough dark humor to make the hard parts land without breaking you.

Inside, you'll find:

• A quiz that replaces "am I overreacting?" with actual clarity
• The four-stage cycle abusers run on repeat - and why it works
• A translation guide for the phrases that sound almost reasonable, until you write them down
• Real dialogue examples, from both directions, because manipulation doesn't check genders at the door
• A no-nonsense exit chapter, because leaving safely matters more than leaving fast

This isn't a book that tells you what to do. It's a flashlight. What you do with what you see is entirely up to you.

Dark humor included. Glitter and gaslighting not included.